Changes...part 2

So it seems that I can't get my header to look even remotely decent...
I have tried everything but it just isn't happening for me.
Wishing now that I had saved my old header, it didn't go with the new look, but at least it didn't look like it had been dragged through a mud puddle and stretched out like some little kids slinky dog.

It looks great in photoshop, but not so much when uploaded, I just can't seem to get it from blurring.  
If there's anyone out there in blogland that can help...please do...
thanks...